Transitions in Marriage

There are many things in marriage that we don't ultimately understand or will even know until we're in the situation. But either way, every newly wed couple with have to go through and cope with transitions in marriage. There will be new things and quirks that will become aparent. The whole idea of this though is to understand that some transitions are good and necessary, but some bad transitions can be bad as well.
Not only are there odd transitions for newly wed couples, but there are also transitions when the first child enters the family. Studies have shown that having a baby drops the satisfaction of marriage and family down until it all of a sudden boosts back up when the couple becomes "empty nesters". This is definitely what studies show. But as I've been learning in my Family Relations class, this does not need to happen. One of the ways to prevent this horrible transition from happening is to really create a loving relationship between you and your spouse even before the baby comes. By really working together and striving to lift and be there for each other will help prepare for when a first child comes. Another way to prepare is by including the father in the prenatal stuff, check-ups and delivery stages of birth. These are such vital times in building relationships and helping that transition become so much smoother. It is always good to let the husband share his opinion on the clothes and to go to check-ups so that he feels included in the babies coming. All of these little tips will really help keep satisfaction in the home even when baby arrives. Another important tip is to keep in mind that everybody needs to be told that they are appreciated. This will really help build relationships and help shoulder burdens when there are struggles.
Transitions can be difficult, but being prepared can help transitions in marriage and family move much more smoothly.